Follow Your OWN Path, Y’all!

Can I tell you all something? I’m so very happy.  

🤩I’m 33 years old.
🤩I am single.
🤩My baby is … a company, less cuddly than a toddler.
🤩I LOVE my baby (company).
🤩My life is unconventional.

Oh… and I’M SOOO HAPPY. 🤗

I barely know how to change a diaper, I don’t know how to lock in the baby seat, I don’t know how to change a tire, and I barely have time for most things that need to be accomplished each week. 🤷I’m rushing around from here to there, from call to call, from video to video, and training to training.

And I LOVE it. I love every second of it.

At 33, I feel more confident, sexy, healthier, in my power than I ever did in my twenties. 🔥🧡

I know who I am and what I want, and I don’t apologize for it anymore. I stand in my power. 

You see, I made time to get to know me, to learn how to prioritize me and love on me no matter what was happening in life or around me. I became a BOSS when it comes to boundaries 🏆— please, please master this skill too! 

I chose the path less taken. 👣 It’s been HARD, but I chose it. I chose to keep trying until I’d figured it out. Happiness. Health. Thriving finances. Keep figuring it out. And I am sooooo happy. 😍

It’s been HARD. But I chose my suck. But that’s the beauty, in the darkest moments, crying alone in my apartment, not knowing what the next step would be, I knew I CHOSE this path. I didn’t settle for it. I CHOSE my hard. And I have loved even the hard parts because I felt in control of my life and my destiny. There’s nothing like that feeling. 💪I chose ME.

If you think about it, we all CHOOSE OUR SUCK. 

You just gotta ask yourself if your suck is setting you up for the kind of life that sets your soul on fire. 🔥

Mine has. I created the life of my dreams! ✨ I worked without stopping for over a decade … a little immigrant girl who didn’t speak a word of English when she arrived to this country, a girl who at some point felt so worthless she didn’t think she should exist on this planet. How far away that feels. How happy I am now.

Keep going. CHOOSE YOU.

I chose differently. 👩‍💻I chose to build a company, well, companies, rather than build a family at a younger age. I decided not to settle when everyone told me that my path wasn’t conventional. I could be married, sure, but I am single and childless by CHOICE.

I don’t just want a marriage, no, I want an INCREDIBLE lifelong romance with my man and future father of my children. 💖I will continue waiting until I meet this warrior.

I didn’t just want to be a mom. No, I wanted to become a mom when it felt like the responsible thing to do- when I’d be able to still run my company(ies) AND have a life. When I could hire help to clean and cook. Maybe I won’t have my own biological children, but I don’t need that to be a MOM. The children who I get to raise will be SO LOVED and I will be one of the most amazing moms in the world, and I’ll do it MY way. Be the kind of mom for my kids I always wanted to be. ✈ We’ll travel the world together, and that education will be unlike any they could receive in school. 🌎

Yes, my choices have been less than conventional. And I’m not posting this to boast, I just want you to GET TO KNOW YOURSELF. Know what makes YOU happy and gosh darn it, go after it. You deserve to and CAN make your life a masterpiece, but you’ve got to claim it! 🙋

I’m also writing this for the young women (or older ones) who feel shame for prioritizing their happiness, going off to create their own adventure in a non-conventional way. YOUR LIFE DOESN’T HAVE TO LOOK LIKE EVERYONE ELSE’S!! 🙌

💥STOP GIVING AWAY YOUR POWER to people who should have such little say in your life. If you want to be liked and approved of by the world, you will never be happy. Set your own list of values and make YOURSELF HAPPY. Your neighbor, mom, sister, mentor disapproves of your choices? So what? It’s your ONE precious life, stop trying to shape-shift to make other people happy, gosh darn it, MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY. Stop giving so much weight to what others think or say.

If you listen to the beating of your heart, 💓choose the few people that will walk with you on this path (choose them VERY carefully), if you get to know yourself and make yourself happy every day, you will live an incredible life.

I am not a millionaire yet. 💵 But I realized I don’t need that to be HAPPY. I am living life on my OWN TERMS, making mistakes and getting bruised along the way, but I CHOSE this path. And that makes me so HAPPY. When I do become a millionaire, I’ll be a happy millionaire! 💵Work on your happiness and self-worth first!

You have to be relentless in going after your dream. You have to be the only one still going when everyone is telling you you are crazy. Believe me, I know.

BUT…if you follow your heart, your intuition, if you listen to that inner beating that is there, that inner voice… you will CREATE a life that you do LOVE 💖, where you and your chosen tribe will be happy and work through the hard times together. You will have said you CHOSE your life, you didn’t settle for it.

The world is my oyster. I’m building my company. I am helping change businesses to impact the world. I’m making time to spend with family. Dating has never been this amazing in my life! I am enforcing my boundaries in all parts of my life. I am showing up for me and my dreams every day.

I AM SO HAPPY. 😍

My wish is that you’ll go out and make yourself so happy too. You deserve it.

So tell me, what are you committing to make YOUR life a masterpiece?